when subjective attraction meets objective attractiveness

One day, you’ll find someone whose subjective attraction won’t just collide but CONVERGE with your objective attractiveness.

It won’t be any person. It’ll be your favorite person in the world. And you’ll be theirs.

Till then?

You’ll chase shadows.

Because, as anything moderately worth it in life, it’ll be difficult to get.

What’s to be done (even existentially!) as of now?

Become your favorite person’s favorite person.

Ah, and don’t forget to get in love with the process. One day, you’ll miss it.

Also, I know. Someone can love you for what you are and just for that.

But even better if you are what they need apart from what they love.

Please throw in the bin the “finally got the girl so I can let myself go physically” or the (I have no idea what the equivalent is for girls) thing.

You literally searched for that person in every corner. And now you aren’t showing up?

That's the real betrayal. And betrayal is a nice word.

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Why will it be so tricky at times?

Because you can see the most beautiful forehand ever and if you are not a big tennis fan you literally (no, literally) won’t care.

Showed this video to my brother. He literally looked me dead in the eye and said:

So?

He doesn’t get it.

But someone will get you. You and your passions.

Or what’s better. They’ll want to learn about them and actually listen.

The subjective/objective thing I mentioned in the title comes from a book called “Meaning in Life and Why it Matters”, specifically on the definition of meaning according to the author.

With the hue that, to her, meaning in life arrives when subjective attraction meets objective attractiveness and one is able to do something about or with it.

Because, you could see the most beautiful forehand ever and do nothing about it?

Don’t you?

Anyways, be patient.

And I promise one day, someone will look at you as I look at this Rafa video.